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The thoughts and experiences of SultryMissEm

I have never been someone who considered themselves a perfectionist. More of a that’s good enough, that will do, not so bad type of completion person. I get the job done, it meets the needs, but it has flaws like me. Also like me, I strive to get better each time I do something.

Perfect? Perfection? Perfectionist?

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It got me thinking about how I use my fatness in my sex work and my sex work identity. To understand how I use my fatness in sex work, I have to look at how I use my fatness in life...

Fatness in Sex Work

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While watching the recent YNOTcamawards, I learned about the lovely @AerieSaunders and her new project AdultMutualAid.com...


Adult Mutual Aid

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After 7 plus years of working on cam you can start to categorize just about every guy who comes into your space. Every model will have their own categories and understanding of the relationships they have with their clients. These are the ones that have become common in my work...

Types of Cam Clients

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A fave meme comes to mind as I sit to write this.

Simple, beautiful line drawings. One body says “does the full moon influence you?” The other is a woman who has long hair and a dress on, both have long tendrils going from her to trees, birds the moon, etc. Her response is “a little”...

Grounding Techniques

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I got this question on cam from a guy who was confused and intrigued by me. First he came in and was full of compliments about my beauty. The intensity of my eyes, the mischievousness of my smile, the confidence I exuded. I prompted him to read my profile and tell me what kind of fun he was looking for as I do with all people who come into my work space. He was upset to realize I am a Domme as he felt we would clash heads in a bad way. I let him know he had 2 options: 1) I do offer vanilla/non power exchange play or 2) he could wish me a lovely day and move on to another model that might meet his needs. He was stuck on the fact that I am a Domme so I wished him a good day and he left...

"Why so business mannered in a hospitality field of work?"
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Variety of ways to connect a Domme and sub in person and from long distance/online...

Ideas to explore between Domme and sub

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There are so many levels to cuckholding.

During a cam session I usually list these levels to gauge two main aspects. One is how involved a guy wants to be in the whole scene, as well as his true desire and intention behind wanting to explore cuckholding...

Cuckholding

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I have done years of fetish play, I have played with many “common” and many “unique” fetishes. One of my absolute favourite sessions ever, was fairly early on in my cam days I had a guy request that I wear a cardigan style sweater while blowing my nose. He requested the louder the better!!

Fun Fetish-Sneeze Sweater

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The number of men who desire sexual experiences with other men is much higher than you could possibly imagine. I get so many guys who come to me as a safe place to explore their curiosities and desires that aren’t as accepted in our/their societies. They understand on some level that sexuality is fluid, that a sexual experience doesn’t define someone’s sexuality, even if they cannot put words to it. There is such an incredibly high level of stigma against the idea of men being gay as the worst possible thing they could imagine. Curiosity is natural in humans, especially when it comes to sexuality...

Exploring your bi curiosities

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This seems like something that should be damn clear and easy enough to understand. However if you ask anyone in the sex work industry they will ALL have stories about how everyone from family/friends/partners to the media to clients have treated them as less than. Told they are not the priority, their pleasure is irrelevant, their need to feel safe is a joke, they are disposable. This comes in the form of dead hooker jokes, guys refusing to provide screening information-claiming their need for privacy trumps a providers need for safety, media showing sex workers as all being broken shells of humans who have no other choices while being riddled with drug problems...

Hookers are people too!

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Sex work is this interesting crossroads of so many parts of life. We are professionals, we supply a service, a service most people have access to/desire for in their day to day life outside of professional hirings. This “thing” that is totally acceptable to exchange between people with no money involved, suddenly becomes strange and less acceptable when money is added. With significantly different laws surrounding the exchange between sex worker and the client, it can make the transaction even more confusing with layers of concerns. The way we navigate these transactions can take time and learning, not to mention, every sex worker has different requirements when booking...

Things not to ask a sex worker

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A light introduction to some popular BDSM activities, deep dives into each of these will follow!


First things are understanding this could change your day to day relationship in addition to bedroom (or whatever room you play in) time. Being a Domme is not just ordering someone around and being a bitch, it is a serious responsibility that takes a lot of work to ensure needs are met and everyone is enjoying...

Intro to Domination

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I will be teaching a class on Monday July 29 6-9 pm

This one will be on doing webcam modelling. I have been a webcam model almost 5 years now, I have worked on a variety of sites...

Class about webcam modelling

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Spring brings so much joy and beauty. Time for new goals, growth and adventure! With this comes new options for fun with me. I am now offering companionship packages to enjoy my sensual beauty and pleasure. I have incredible, pin-up girl style curves that deserve to be touched, teased, and pleased. Have you fantasized about exploring full hips, natural body, curves all topped with a killer, seductive smile? Now is your chance...

Classes and Companionship

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I've been a Pro Domme off and on for almost 20 years. I have immense experience, and am incredibly safety minded.

I have spoken to some of you who are quite interested in learning and am looking forward to teaching the in depth skills that would be a great addition to your toolbox...

Classes to begin this month

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The more I begin to explore the world of FinDom the more I know it is truly for me. I am so different from the majority of the other Dommes who style more of a "Fuck you, Pay Me" approach. I am much more gentle, I set high expectations, strict consequences for failure to comply and before you know it you are doing whatever it takes to please me...

Humiliation

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